Monthly Archives: July 2010

Married Women Who Flirt

Flirting is an art of expressing interest in people and at the same time shining your inner glow through your words and action either for amorous or sexual interest or both. Good flirts are the people who are confident enough of offering something great to the world and enjoy creating good feelings in the person he or she wants to. Married woman flirting is a part of this process. The reason for the flirtation by married woman varies from person to person. A lot of married women who might have lost the warmth of married life or simply want to get some spice in life to get rid of the boredom try to flirt with single man to see if they are still interesting and attractive. The married woman finds it nice to have some new excitement in life. Married life gets monotonous after a certain period and the women starts missing the excitement of their previous days.

They love the thrill of meeting someone new whom they can confide in certain emotional feelings and who can admire her looks and qualities.

Some times the over busy husbands become unable to find out time for their wives and the wives start looking for someone to spend some quality time to cherish. Flirtation by a married woman can also be a simple casual time passing to have some variation in life. Sometimes married women like to flirt with a man simply because the charm, personality, intelligence and wit of that person attract her towards him.

A casual flirting by a married woman done successfully and accurately can bring back the lost happiness, fun, and excitement in her life without causing any harm.

So remember married ladies, flirting can be fun and exciting, but never let it go any further than that; a simple flirt!

Why Do Married Men Flirt?

My husband flirts.  Yes, he flirts.  But this is just in his nature.  It’s part of his career in selling.  He doesn’t do it around me so much, but I have seen him in action making a sale, and sometimes making someone feel good about themselves, by flirting with them, can make or break that sale!

But what happens when a married man takes flirting too far?  Why might this be happening?

The most common reasons why married men flirt:

  • he is having a midlife crisis
  • he is unhappy with wife
  • he is not sexually attracted to his wife
  • he likes the attention other women give him
  • he is bored with married life
  • he is insecure about self
  • it makes him feel better about himself
  • he needs to validate his attractiveness and sexuality
  • he thinks flirting is harmless
  • he is looking to have an affair
  • it is exciting
  • to meet emotional needs such as feeling liked, being popular, or being thought of as funny, entertaining, attractive, or sexy
  • as a passive-aggressive way of getting even with the wife. He may have felt rejected sexually and emotionally, so the flirting can be a message to the partner to shape up or risk losing the marriage
  • an attempt to get the wife’s attention

What to do if your husband flirts

If your husband flirts, take a little time to yourself and think about how you feel when he flirts. Once you are familiar with your feelings talk with your husband about them. Talk with him in a non-confrontational way. Be careful not to threaten him. Let him know exactly how you feel and would it would take for you to feel better. Your husband might not realize he flirts. He also might not realize how it makes you feel. If your husband doesn’t want to talk to you about it or says that you are over-reacting, try talking to him again when he is more receptive. Also, look at yourself, are you there for your husband?  Are you giving him the intimacy that he needs?

Remember, communication is key to any relationship, but most importantly the one between a husband and a wife.

Learning The Body Language of Drunk People

One of the best times to watch people and their body language, especially here in Las Vegas, is at the bar after 11:00pm. The reason for the late time is by then most people have had plenty to drink. After a few drinks people let their guard down and will act with exaggeration.

The body language signs that drunken people exhibit during the day or at dinner are easier to catch later on in the night. People’s actions are a little slower when people have been drinking in many occasions.

Here is the best game plan to learn some body language skills.
1. Take some friends who would also like to enjoy learning body language.
2. Go to a semi crowded place where people are going to be, by the way they do not have to be drinking.
3. Pick 2 or 3 items to look for before you get there that you want to look out for or learn.
4. Get to your location a little earlier than the crowd so you can pick an advantageous spot with good visibility.
5.  Do not drink alcohol; your job is to do the watching of the body language not to be the drunk one, observed for your own antics.
6. You will want to engage the people around you, If you are there alone, it might look a little funny if you are just sitting there and not talking to anybody.  If you have friends with you, have at least one person in your group engage in conversation with someone other than someone in your group, particularly someone of the opposite sex.
7. Since people are friendlier most times after a few drinks you can go and ask them questions about what was going on. This will have to be done discreetly. It wouldn’t make sense to walk up and ask about a situation, you will have to thread it into or weave it into your conversation.

Once you have taken some time with a few trips you will start to pick up the nuisances with some of the body language skills.  

It’s always a lot of fun to watch people, especially watching people and the way the approach their ‘target’.  Especially after a few drinks!

Enjoy Learning The Body Language of Drunk People!

Until next post, this web designer, web promoter, and social media and marketing queen is out of here!

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